Helping him out

[Lazytimes]

Been married 22 years and Dh sex drive always been more than mine but more so now. He "helps himself" while in bed and I dont mind. I am odd?

LOL! Nah, my ex was a right wanker in the literal sense of the word, I just asked he didn't rock the bed too much. It never bothered me.

No, doesn't bother me either.

I don't mind. I surprise DH occasionally by getting in on the act. You are not weird.

Do you mean "helps himself" as in masturbates? Or as in "helps himself" to your body without your involvement? One is ok, the other is not.

Depends what you mean.

You are not odd in the slightest. It wouldn't bother me either although I'd rather he woke me up to give him a hand!

Masturbates

@Lazytimes

Masturbates

First time i joined in he was surprised. He knows it not certain Ill do it but it never takes long and sometimes leads to more.

I don't think you're odd for not minding in that case, no. If it works for both of you then crack on!

This sounds so depressing....

@Viddy2021

This sounds so depressing....

How is that depressing?

What's the alternative - him bitching at OP for mismatched sex drives, & nagging & coercing her, as we see so often on these boards ..?

It's odd that you just lie there and ignore him. Should at least give him a hand or something! You never know, you might end up getting turned on yourself.