My OH has been off with me for a few weeks. I kept asking if everything was OK only to be met with everything is fine, I'm fine. So I leave it at that.
He phones me this morning.. Ive had enough, I'm thinking about calling it a day. Me and you, its hard work. So I ask why. His response was, you're too clingy and needy. You don't leave me alone for 5 minutes always wanting kisses and cuddles.
I will say this, yes I like kisses and cuddles but its not constant in the way he says. This is how we've always been, just recently it seems to bug him.
We had a good weekend, I say this to him. He says he was putting on a show because his kids were here. He's not been happy for a long time. This is the same guy who asked me to marry him 2 months ago. And the same guy who always wants me with him for reasons only he knows. Is that not him being clingy and needy?
I suggest going to stay with a friend for a few days have a bit of breathing space but he doesn't want that. He doesn't want to end our relationship either so he says. He just wants me to chill with the cuddles.
All this over a phonecall then 5 minutes later by text.. I love you sooooo much and about 16 hearts.
Mixed messages or what?
I did want to leave after that phonecall, to walk away and never look back. We've spoken since and he doesn't want to lose me, his words, he loves me to bits.
Talk about playing with a girls feelings. My heads a fucking shed now. Basically from that conversation I got, chill out or I'll end it.
He doesn't tell me what's bothering him when it actually happens, he let's things build and build until he blows up. All I've ever done is love this man.