Now Ex was looking at escorts and gay chat

[chaearl]

Will try to keep it short,
Had been in a relationship with someone for 10 months and we recently moved in together. As far as i was concerned we had the perfect relationship, i can't fault it or him. Every aspect was great or so i thought.
I was using his laptop to fill in some things for my new job so i went onto Google and i didnt know but his phone is linked to his laptop so when i went to type into the Google search bar some rather discriminating searches came up. Gay chat, gay porn, escorts in the local area.
Now the porn doesn't bother me but the other stuff did. We ultimately seperated and he now wants me back.
He says he was never going to act upon it but i just cant trust him now. He was my first relationship since seperating from ny sons father and i am just devastated and i feel so depressed. Any words of wisdom or comfort I'd love x

Thank your lucky stars for a narrow escape and move on.

Remind yourself whenever you need to that you can't trust him, and tell him bugger off

I married one of these - even after I found the gay porn. God, I was so stupid and naive. He lives with his boyfriend in my old house now. Your partner is gay. And he has acted on it. He’ll just get better at hiding it from now on.

Also remember that not all blokes are like that. Keep your standards high and make sure you're doing lots in life to make you happy - dating should be the icing on the cake!

I'm engaged but still on gay chat