Following escort on FB

[MudPit]

I spotted that my bf is following (as opposed to friends with) someone on FB that is an escort (Adultwork site). Trying not to jump to conclusions but still upset by this. Should I ask him about it? I mean, I know I should but I'm almost scared as to what the answer might be.

It's not great. You could just get it right out there. Cry. Make him feel bad. Then at least he might make the effort to hide it from you.

It's not good. It's humiliating, especially if all your friends on FB can see it. What is wrong with him?!

When a firework goes off the bang is never as fearful as the anticipation.

Personally, I think the bang has happened. The firework has already gone off.

Never, ever return to a spent firework.

I asked. He said he had no idea who it was and that he wasn't aware of following them. Then got angry that I didn't trust him.

Ah, so it is your fault.

Chapter 1.

@MudPit

I asked. He said he had no idea who it was and that he wasn't aware of following them. Then got angry that I didn't trust him.

Oh dear

Tell him to fuck off.

He said he had no idea who it was and that he wasn’t aware of following them.

He’s lying. He does know who she is and he is aware that he’s been following her. Not only is he taking you for a fool, he is shifting the blame to you.

Does he have form for lying and manipulation? Are these dealbreakers for you?

Getting angry is a bad sign, if a genuine accidental following somehow, would perhaps do a oops! Sorry I get it looks bad, will un-follow straight away, my mistake. But he's done a "this is your fault for finding me out" scenario which has guilty and caught out written all over it.