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Just found DPs porn stash ... nice.

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KittyLetteItSnow · 05/12/2007 15:50

Am not gonna turn into one of those sobbing housewives but am still a bit

Didnt think he had any.

2 DVDs.

Hope he washes his hands after

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Camillathechicken · 05/12/2007 15:51

2 DVDs is hardly a stash

now go and practice your wedding make up

Camillathechicken · 05/12/2007 15:52

sorry, that sounded harsh ! i meant to add a

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KittyLetteItSnow · 05/12/2007 15:52

LMAO, already have,

its more than one and its hidden so its a stash dammit

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Camillathechicken · 05/12/2007 15:55

pedant

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KittyLetteItSnow · 05/12/2007 15:59

Ha!

Shall i leave them on the side when his Dad brings him home?

Or better still pop them in the copy of 'Little Miss Sunshine' his mum leant us?

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Camillathechicken · 05/12/2007 16:03

i wouldn;t embarass him in front of his parents.....just casually mention it later

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KittyLetteItSnow · 05/12/2007 16:04

It was a joke,

his dad would probably ask to borrow them anyway!

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BettySpaghetti · 05/12/2007 16:04

Where were they hidden?

Could you perhaps leave a note or something else in their place so he gets a surprise next time he goes looking for them

SelfishMrsClaus · 05/12/2007 16:05

I'd just tell him I found a few things of his.....

Were you snooping or was it really badly hidden?

santascRUMPELedsuit · 05/12/2007 16:05

Why don't you wait until he goes out and be ready for when he comes back in. Have them playing and be all thrusting with a big V yourself - when he asks to join in say 'No thanks, it's much more fun myself!'

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KittyLetteItSnow · 05/12/2007 16:06

He has a pole (snort) with all dvd/cds on them nostly PC stuff and games and ds pushed it over and they were just there.

I like the ways hes threw the box away and just sliped them in with the 'windows xp' and such

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Carnival · 05/12/2007 16:06

Wrap them up and give them to the parents for Christmas. Have a fabulous time, love from your DS

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KittyLetteItSnow · 05/12/2007 16:12

lol,no good as pressies he's threw the boxes,

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KittyLetteItSnow · 05/12/2007 16:31

Just phoned hima nd told him I found them (in a winding him up kinda way)

Feel a bit bad now, although he knows Im only playing and Im not really bothered.

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CountessDracula · 05/12/2007 16:38

Why are you winding him up if you are genuinely not bothered?

I don't have a problem with porn at all
I do have a problem with secretive behaviour though!

CountessDracula · 05/12/2007 16:39

(sorry that sounded a bit attacking, not intended. All I meant was that you clearly are bothered about something if not porn pe se and maybe it is that!)

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KittyLetteItSnow · 05/12/2007 16:41

Im not bothered about it but Im just winding him up, lol.

Doesnt have to be anything underlying.

You never wind anyone up?

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harleyd · 05/12/2007 16:41

lol 2 dvd's being a stash

Carnival · 05/12/2007 16:43

Surely it's natural to have a wee bit of a pout when you find out that your DH/DP has been looking at other woman's (men's) wobbly bits and you didn't know about it...

CountessDracula · 05/12/2007 16:43

oh sorry
I thought you were a bit bovvered when you said

Am not gonna turn into one of those sobbing housewives but am still a bit

Forget I said anything

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KittyLetteItSnow · 05/12/2007 16:44

I was just a bit miffed that i found them when i didnt think he had any iykwim.

No problem with porn at all .. just didnt know he had any!

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mellowma · 05/12/2007 16:45

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CountessDracula · 05/12/2007 16:45

Ah quite
so it's the deceit (rather a strong word but ykwim) that is bothering you not the porn

Which was what I was saying

Nothing wrong with wanting honestly in my book

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KittyLetteItSnow · 05/12/2007 16:47

Yup,

he knows how open I am, so why not say 'hey look what I got today'

even if its just us in a giggly way (we are very giggly) rather than

'covert operation no # 376 : hide the porn'

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CountessDracula · 05/12/2007 16:48

Absolutely

I think it important to understand what miffs us in these situations. Not just to think oh this makes me a bit uncomfortable but I;m ok with porn so it must be nothing, and brush it all under the carpet.

And to communicate it to OH

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