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Men experiencing higher sex drive in older age, what does this mean?

15 replies

Battlingongraciously · 13/09/2021 03:00

I've found a few men seeming to develop a high sex drive in older age. What could this be due to? Stress?

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Guineapigbridge · 13/09/2021 03:29

Men and women both experience a sense of freedom when their kids leave home or when they first leave a relationship. High sex drive can also be a code word for sleazey-boundary-pusher.

Catullus5 · 13/09/2021 03:43

Lack of stress more like. My libido is probably better now than 10 years ago. I don't find my job as demanding as I used to and the children are older, so less work. I'm only in my 40s, so not old, but it seems to me I'll be even less stressed in a decade's time.

ShippingNews · 13/09/2021 04:27

Old age ? How old do you mean ?

Weatherwax13 · 13/09/2021 04:34

Viagra

Naunet · 13/09/2021 10:04

Really? Testosterone levels drop as men get older, so they tend to want sex less, not more (on average of course).

Battlingongraciously · 13/09/2021 10:06

Thanks for your comments. I just wanted to run it past the forum. Just wondering how some men get to needing more sex in their old age.

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Smithsfan2 · 13/09/2021 10:14

I’m a bloke in my 50’s and to be honest I don’t know anyone in my friendship group who are like this with the exception of one who was divorced a year ago and so is happily exploring the market. Those in long standing relationships seem to just want to play sport and go to the pub nowadays.

Freddy12 · 13/09/2021 10:16

I have been with my wife for 12 years I am 57 she is 62 fortunately we both have high/ similar sex drives
When we were both working FT we probably averaged around 7 times a week now we are both retired and have way more time we spend a lot of time playing around mostly in the morning full sex has dropped off slightly but as we have time we tend to play in the morning tease a bit in the day and catch up fully later or anytime really
I would say my sex drive is around the say as it has always been
I know I am lucky to have a wife that matches me so well in this and most things

Battlingongraciously · 13/09/2021 10:58

Thanks for the info, appreciate it.

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JustAnother0ldMan · 13/09/2021 11:17

As others say, probably lack of stress tbh as that really kills libido,

Testosterone levels do drop, but that various from man to man

GoodnightGrandma · 13/09/2021 11:18

@Weatherwax13

Viagra
This is what I thought.
coronaway · 13/09/2021 12:32

Viagra doesn't increase sex drive.

I'd echo the less stres / more free time comments. Alternatively they may have gone on TRT.

EvenMoreFuriousVexation · 13/09/2021 12:36

I'd imagine it's the same reasons some women develop a higher sex drive as they age.

JustAnother0ldMan · 13/09/2021 12:46

@Weatherwax13

Viagra
Nope, viagra does work like won’t increase sex drive as such
JustAnother0ldMan · 13/09/2021 12:47

..Doesn’t work…

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