Hi all,
I’ve recently faced a situation that has left me at a loss as to what to do…I’d love to hear others perspectives as my husband is sick of discussing it with me!!!
So, here goes… I met another mother at my youngest daughters kindergarten almost a decade ago and we became really good friends. This extended to our families socialising regularly over the years; holidays, camping trips etc. My middle daughter however regularly said that my friends husband gave her the creeps - he used to tickle and wink at her etc and make her feel really uncomfortable. As a result we distanced ourselves from them somewhat as she never wanted to be around him.
Fast forward a few years (I was still meeting my friend alone for coffee etc) I suddenly got a random notification from Twitter saying one of my ‘connections’ had joined Twitter. When I clicked the profile it was my friends husband. His face on the profile etc. When I looked closer and read his bio etc it became apparent that he was openly looking for gay casual sex, he referred to himself as being vers etc so I don’t think he was new to the scene. He had posted photos of himself in extremely explicit poses - one of which was clearly taken in his place of work! As he drives a bus for a living this could have been witnessed by kids/ elderly people etc which is a huge worry. Most of his posts and photos were directed at very young males… and he referred to himself as being a ‘daddy’.
I took screen shots and showed my friend.
To cut a very long story short she messaged me saying he is adamant it isn’t him and she’s standing by him!
I may be completely over reacting but I’m really unsure what to do. He drives the bus on my daughters school bus line and it is constantly playing on my mind.
TIA
Best Wishes