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Please come and help a silly insecure mess

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insecuregoose · 11/09/2021 21:16

Hey you lovely lot,

I don't want to sound silly or insecure here but the reality is I probably am both of those things due to unhealthy relationships in the past!

My amazing, lovely, handsome boyfriend is out with friends on a night out. No reason to distrust him. Know he won't cheat. And yet I am at home feeling sick with worry :( I think it's just because I love him so much and am quite a jealous person - I think this is due to a toxic relationship in the past.

Does anyone else get like this? Any tips on how to not be a quivering wreck all night? Or maybe even just chat to me to take my mind off it? What are you all upto xx

OP posts:
Youknownothingsnow · 11/09/2021 21:21

I normally have a pamper night but my oh hasn’t been out since before COVID, I wish he would! Ha! Enjoy having some “you” time!

insecuregoose · 11/09/2021 21:23

@Youknownothingsnow hahaha that's one way of looking at it! I'm watching 9/11 documentaries though which was possibly a poor choice. Might put something funny on!

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ClaudiaWinkleHam · 11/09/2021 21:37

Totally understandable given your past but how great you’ve met a lovely man now :)

I recommend Married at First Sight for tonight… mind blowing stuff! Grin

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