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Is the way I feel normal?

10 replies

Mowiejo · 01/09/2021 13:19

I’ve been seeing a guy for 6 months, for the past few weeks circumstances have changed and we’ve been spending a lot of time together. We’ve always gotten on, had amazing sex and always laughing.

Recently we seem to have gotten a lot closer he just says little things or watches me when I’m supposed to be sleeping. Anyway the last few times we spent together, the day after I just feel like a warm glow. I feel happy and get like a rush of affection when I think of him. I’ve only ever had sort of toxic, hot cold push pull relationships. What is this feeling? Is it just finally being normal?

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Brieeeeeeeeeeee · 01/09/2021 13:22

Normal. Congratulations!

Mowiejo · 01/09/2021 13:25

Thank you! It’s scary!

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MiddleEasternMummy · 01/09/2021 13:31

Ahhhhh i love that feeling ! Enjoy it your in love 😀

Brieeeeeeeeeeee · 01/09/2021 13:35

It is scary. It does calm down though, into more of a contentedness than a purely positive glow all the time. And you do appreciate time apart eventually!

Mowiejo · 01/09/2021 13:36

Is it love? I feel like all my other relationships were so intense not in a good way. This just feels like we’re best friends who can’t keep their hands off each other

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LastGirlSanding · 01/09/2021 13:55

I think this is how healthy love feels! You’re getting the nice hormonal cocktail (like oxytocin for example) without the dread, fear and anxiety of a push-pull relationship. Feels weird if you’re not used to it, i’m in the same boat. It’s like the same sort of intense feeling but also weirdly calmer - like a glow as you say. Feels weird, but nice!!

sunnyzweibrucken · 02/09/2021 01:31

Ahhhhh I was in love like that only once before. He was my very best friend who I was emotionally and sexually attracted to. It’s the best feeling ever-enjoy it!!

WhatdoIsaytothem · 02/09/2021 08:26

Sounds like you are in love ;)
Enjoy every minute. It’s an amazing feeling xxx

66babe · 02/09/2021 08:43

Ah how lovely , you've got " the feels"
Enjoy every minute

messybun101 · 02/09/2021 08:55

It's love!! GrinGrin enjoy and be happy op!!

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