An elderly aunt of mine has been dating a much younger man for a few weeks and I'm a bit worried.
We don't live close by but I ring her every week for a chat. She's always out and about, has lots of friends (mid 70's) and it transpires she's met this younger chap who's been taking her out. According to her he's lovely but we won't get to meet him any time soon because of the distance.
Would you be wondering what he sees in a woman 20 years older, or would you just think "oh how lovely she's got a nice boyfriend"?