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Anyone know much about Instagram?

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Mamofdevils · 29/08/2021 16:29

Please be kind. I've just had my third lo and feeling insecure and pretty crazy right now. I'm sure it's nothing but a profile following my husband has peaked my interests. Know I shouldn't be looking but he's always on his phone so it's got my radar going. All of his followers are people we both know minus this one. She liked some of his pictures (that's fine) but I noticed she seems to have unfollowed him (he was still following her). I tried to follow her (private account) and now her account has been deleted or she's blocked me? Her followers, who's she's following, posts and profile picture disappeared? Though now it's saying she now has a few followers again is following much less people? Feel free to tell me I'm barking mad and looking too much into this.

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Shoxfordian · 29/08/2021 16:45

Have you asked him who she is? Why don’t you trust him?

notenoughcoffeeee · 29/08/2021 16:47

If her account name and profile photo are still there then she's blocked you. Also if you type user in the search box it won't come up if she's blocked you.

Mamofdevils · 29/08/2021 16:54

I have never had any problems trusting him before now. Just feeling quite insecure at the moment and his constant phone use makes me feel uncomfortable. Completely prepared to be told I'm being ridiculous. It sounds mad to me which is probably why I'm finding it a difficult subject to bring up with him.

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Mamofdevils · 29/08/2021 16:56

All that's there now is the name of the account and a few followers and who she's following. It's a private account though so won't show who.

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Lou98 · 29/08/2021 17:09

Loads of people on Instagram follow people that they don't actually know in real life. Although it is a bit strange if everyone else your husband follows he knows.

Are you sure it's not someone he knows though? A work colleague? Someone he met on a night out? Friend of a friend?

You say you have no reason not to trust him so personally I wouldn't jump to him cheating. If you're not prepared to ask him who she is then you're going to have to let it go.

Honeymare · 29/08/2021 17:14

PM me her details and I'll check it out for you

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