I love him to bits, I just wondered what if anything might be going on here. I don’t want to change him, maybe just some idea so I don’t do something to upset him.
He keeps absolutely everything, it really seems to upset him to throw things. Empty jars, plastic food packets, you name it he keeps it. He says he has a plan or a project but never actually gets around to doing anything. He has a long list of projects, buys things to do up but just end up in the shed or garage or house which is rather full. In the beginning I helped tidy up some bits thinking I was helping but I could tell it made him anxious. Especially at the thought I’d thrown stuff away.
He can sit and play games on his phone for hours or play with those spinners etc. His feet and hands are always tapping. He has things he has had for a long time which need throwing but he literally can’t as he says they are for comfort.
He can’t make a decision and seems really rather unnerved at trying.
He won’t try any new food, sticks to the same things he had since a child. He literally refuses point blank to eat anything outside of comfort zone.
Does this sound like anything?