Hi There,
8 months into a relationship and I've shown complete love, trust and respect for my girl. We had a workable problem with her teenage girls, the time sharing was a pretty good balancing act with my mate and some things I was trying to adjust and compensate. Then came a Friday night when I was invited on her friends boat to have a couple drinks. Two of her male friends of 8 years, myself and my her. She keep on drinking mixed drinks and also did a few shots of Tequila. Then the trouble started. She kissed the one guy quickly on the lips, which was fine, 8 year friendship that I could respect. She went over to the other guy, kissed him quickly on the lips, then put her head between his legs for more than a few seconds, maybe 5 seconds, but I wasn't counting. I was disgusted and left her there. ( I originally picked her up at the apartment which is a 20 min ride) She has repeatedly said she was sorry and insisted that alcohol brought it on. I am disgusted and hurt as I have put 8 months of trust, love and respect, and in 5 seconds it out the window. I don't know if I could ever trust her again to ever go back, This has left a scar in my head. Do you think she is deserving of a second chance?? Thank you and please help. Also, to her credit, she does not have a drinking problem (that I know of). We had only shared bottles of wine together in the past, nothing excessive.
Thanks,