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How to handle this man

4 replies

Allthingsgreatandsmall · 16/08/2021 20:11

I have gone no contact as I felt he was losing interest/or not interested anymore.
The last time we had a conversation I suggested we meet up, he said he likes the sound of that, however nothing materialised. We used to see eachother often and now I'm getting mixed messages. What would you do in this situation? Ask him out right? Go no contact and wait for him to contact me?
How long would you go no contact if so?

I feel I'm getting mixed message from him and I'm not sure what to do about it. I also feel he may just need time.

OP posts:
Lolabray · 16/08/2021 20:13

If he’s interested he will get in touch. Don’t do the chasing x

justthecat · 16/08/2021 20:13

Move on

FOJN · 16/08/2021 20:17

If you go no contact you do just that. It reads as if you think not contacting him will prompt him to contact you but what if he doesn't?

When you suggested meeting and he agreed did you try to make any arrangements or did you leave it to him? He might be confused about the messages you're sending.

You could ask him if he's no longer interested and then you will know where you stand.

I wouldn't pursue things if he's ambivalent, walk away and find someone who is enthusiastic about spending time with you.

WhatdoIsaytothem · 16/08/2021 20:17

He’s not that into you. If he was, you would know. Don’t be second guessing this person.
I wasted a year on a man who was like this. He is either too busy or has his eye elsewhere.
Keep busy and find somebody else to spend time with. Xx

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