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Need help plz help me...

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lostperson · 15/08/2021 22:27

My partner and I have been together for 9 yrs.We had our ups and down. Lately he is v unhappy with his life. Today we had huge fight over something happened 2 yrs back. Right now nothing in our life is going well.

I don't know I feel I'm his bad luck. Since I moved in with him for past 2 yrs he seems happy but I feel he is not. I ask him he says he is happy.

His car is broken all of sudden and maybe we have to replace the car. In past 2 yrs we have put bit of money for car and it works for year and sometime happens and if breaks.we cannot afford new car to buy.

Where he works his boss is not giving him commissions he deserves and he should get where he has put his sweat and earned it.

He feels like a failure in life he told me I wish I can jump of the tube and die. He was so upset. Due to all problems at once's. He is very hard working and lovely person.

Any advice how I can help him ?

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minniemouseshouses · 15/08/2021 22:48

Hi OP, it seems your partner is depressed or having issues beyond what you can help him with, I’m referring to the last comment about him wanting to die. I’d advise him to talk to his GP.

lostperson · 15/08/2021 22:55

Why life is so hard for people who are good and bad ppl live peacefully and happily ???

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minniemouseshouses · 15/08/2021 23:08

Everyone has their struggles. Something I remind myself is to never compare myself to others- it makes you miserable. Try to get your partner help for his mental health - it wil help him deal with life’s challenges better.

lostperson · 15/08/2021 23:20

Yes I will tell him to call GP 1st thing in morning thank you 🙏🏽

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