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Still living with ex

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aminaive1 · 12/08/2021 07:49

9 months on into a relationship and he is still living with his ex.

Been promising to move out for months. They are separated in basic terms but there is still huge emotional ties due to dc etc.

I'm in love with him but my gut feeling is telling me I should walk away (I would have if it had not been for my feelings).
I also didn't know about his living situation until I was in too deep.

I need to walk away don't I?

OP posts:
OurChristmasMiracle · 12/08/2021 07:51

He’s not separated would be my bet tbh and he is using the kids as an excuse as to why he still lives there.

Sorry Flowers

arethereanyleftatall · 12/08/2021 08:06

Perfectly possible that he's telling the truth. I lived nearly 2 years with my ex whilst we sorted out divorce and tried to sell the house. It would have been a waste of money for him to move out and rent when we needed every penny we could get to buy two houses.

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