My current partner can be so nice, loving and caring. However, there is also a very frustrating side to him. He wants to be able to live his life doing what he wants & when it comes to this, his lack of consideration for me goes out the window. He thinks he should do what he wants, when he wants & I should be happy for him that he’s enjoying himself. But, surely when you’re in a couple, you can’t always do what you want? Surely you should be considerate of your partner? He wants to have his mate round every weekend to watch sport. Every. Weekend. He wants to be able to go on long weekends away when he wants. If I’m not well he wants to still be able to have people over. If I raise any issues I’m “causing drama”. I don’t mind him doing things but it gets to a certain point where i feel like he takes the piss. For example, if he gets invited out 3 nights in a row, he will go. Whereas I might do 1 or 2 and then arrange the other one for another week. I consider him in my plans but I don’t feel like I get that from him. If he does consider me and not go to one thing then he seems to be mad and resentful deep down about it. And it makes it even more frustrating that he gets so defensive if I raise any issues about this. There’s so many other examples of where he doesn’t consider me but don’t want to get into too many specifics. Is this normal?? I like to do my own thing too but I feel like if I always wanted to do what I want without considering someone else then I would just be single??