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Newly dating need help !!!

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charmedhay · 28/11/2007 20:13

Hi all
i'm getting divorced for the 2nd time . Oh joy !! I'm glad its over so no hard feeling etc.
I've met a really nice guy on internet dating ! We've been "talking" for a couple of months ,texts etc. We have meet a few times and had a little fumble lol. How do i ask if this is a relationship or a mess around , it seems a really stupid question But i feel so out of the loop , i had known ex for ages as friends before we got together so haven't actually "dated" for years . Now i don't want to seem needy But i don't want to be messed around !! Help any advice ??

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charmedhay · 29/11/2007 20:06

Oh thanks i feel really old at only 33 lol .
Thought i would be confident and sassy But i'm just confused lol

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hls · 01/12/2007 13:06

The quickest way to frighten any man off is to ask "is this a relationship"! Just go with the flow- if you end up doing all the running and get a hint that you aren't the only one he is seeing, then you will have to decide what you want to do.

Old at 33! OMG no!- I was just getting married for the first time at roughly that age, minus a couple of years ( and am still married 23 years later!)

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