It's a tough one. To cut into a holiday is poor form and especially if it's a big club that he can watch on the telly. Neither should every other Saturday be written off as his time.
On the other hand the number of posters who seem to imply that family time is all encompassing and having hobbies a distant part of someone's life that should be totally sacrificed at the altar of family is worrying.
My children are late teens now, but I remember family time as sometimes amazing and sometimes drudgery. What I do remember is being shamed into giving up all my hobbies by my wife. Family time, then its 'rare opportunity for time together without the kids', work, social obligations with other couples that we are somehow friends with (I hid my indifference well). I loved my hobbies, still do. I like tabletop wargaming and playing tennis and lots of things that need a bit of time but no set schedule.
I happily looked after my own children so my wife could see friends, go out for coffee etc yet if I ask for a few hours on a Sunday I am a callous bastard who hates his own kids. Now they are older she is losing that card but will instead play the couple time card.
Not sure what I am sayinghere. In OPs case feel the husband is in the wrong. There isxa compromise to be had in all things though and to most people their hobbies are important to them that's why they have them.
Now my children are older and I am able to try and indulge my own interests more, I do find myself wondering why the hell I am still married after 20 years of restriction. It's 50/50 if I decide to break away on my own, my wife making it difficult so that I can't do my hobby a few times a month will weigh heavily into that decision.