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Out of sight, out of mind

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Liddywiddy · 03/08/2021 13:27

Now life is resuming to normality again, so is some of my DP's behaviour that I had forgotten about. Nothing major, but niggling me. You know when the more you think about it, it annoys you?!

My DP and I have been together for 4 years and live together. I am cabin crew on long haul flights, so each month I can be away around 10 nights in total. I have always made time to call my DP every day even if just for 5 minutes, plus occasional texts.

This past month since resuming my work I have noticed it is me who always calls and initiates most texts.

I have been away since Sunday morning and not spoken with my DP since I left and exchanged around 5 texts.

He also will have his children today and tomorrow, and I know he is hopeless at multi tasking, so even more reason for him to go silent.

Wall of silence so far today and I just think sod him, I am going silent! I know it is not the end of the world, but it just seems out of sight out of mind!

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ThisIsStartingToBoreMe · 03/08/2021 13:41

Do you think you might have been targeted? Did he move into your home so that he'd have somewhere to take the kids?

Liddywiddy · 03/08/2021 17:21

No, but good thought!

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