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What part of your oh do you find most attractive?

86 replies

Omgthatssointeresting · 31/07/2021 20:13

So having a conversation in bed with dp. He asked what I find most attractive about him physically and I said his eyes or hands. He found that insulting? What?

OP posts:
Aprilx · 31/07/2021 20:21

I think telling somebody their hands are the most attractive part of them is not a great compliment. Although I also think conversations are best avoided as they never end well.

belimoo · 31/07/2021 20:24

My hands are big and ugly so I'd be delighted if somebody told me they found them attractive as it would allay a self-consciousness.

The thing I find most attractive about my dp is his personality but if it has to be physical then I would choose his height/broad stature.

WhatIsThisPlease · 31/07/2021 20:46

His eyes when he smiles 😍

Cameleongirl · 31/07/2021 20:50

Dark curly hair, eyes and his broad shoulders. He’s much physically bigger and broader than petite me…that makes me go weak at the knees.🤣

LubaLuca · 31/07/2021 21:02

He was obviously digging for a huge ego boost and you said he has nice hands and eyes, which is not exactly macho. Nanette Newman had nice hands and eyes.

I won't lower the tone by adding my own.

Goandplay · 31/07/2021 21:05

Smile - the little fang teeth show and they just do something to me.

jozipozi31 · 31/07/2021 21:07

OP you needed to say well apart from the obvious ........... then it's eyes and hands.

Workinghardeveryday · 31/07/2021 21:15

Height, arms, broad shoulders 😊

Mammma91 · 31/07/2021 21:19

My OH has big beautiful brown eyes. I absolutely love them!
I also love his smile.

Beebumble2 · 31/07/2021 21:22

Piercing blue eyes.

Knackeredmommy · 31/07/2021 21:23

His eyes, arms and broad chest

Ilovecharliecat · 31/07/2021 21:27

His body, for 57 year old it's very impressive

LoveFall · 31/07/2021 21:29

Arms and gorgeous blue eyes. But the most attractive thing to me is what a great father and grandfather he is. The grandchildren absolutely adore him.

TheFoundations · 31/07/2021 21:33

@LubaLuca

He was obviously digging for a huge ego boost and you said he has nice hands and eyes, which is not exactly macho. Nanette Newman had nice hands and eyes.

I won't lower the tone by adding my own.

Nanette Newman! Grin Grin
starbrightstarlight8888 · 31/07/2021 21:38

I can't even pick one. There are loads equally as nice Grin

Colourmeclear · 31/07/2021 21:42

His forearms definitely.

OliveToboogie · 31/07/2021 21:48

His eyes and his smile. First time he smiled at me I melted and fellin love❤️❤️❤️❤️

EssentialHummus · 31/07/2021 21:53

Broad shoulders, commitment to oral sex.

daisyjgrey · 31/07/2021 21:55

When properly smiles he gets a little crinkly dimple by his eye, that's the best bit.

Deadringer · 31/07/2021 21:59

Your dh was expecting you to compliment his massive penis.

cookiecreampie · 31/07/2021 22:02

Eyes and big nose. Body wise ,his bum.

AnneLovesGilbert · 31/07/2021 22:10

Your hands are lovely belimoo, don’t say mean stuff about yourself.

OP, he was asking you say he’s got a majestic cock. So what you said hurt his feelings.

TheFoundations · 31/07/2021 22:12

Voice. But there's a bunch of stuff vying for prime position.

HappydaysArehere · 31/07/2021 23:09

The way he looks after me.

Buggritbuggrit · 31/07/2021 23:37

Eyes, bum, willy, voice, arms. I am quite fond of all his bits.