Love or Money

[changesoul]

If you have to choose between love & money what will you choose & Why? U cannot have both.

Love

I have money and trust me if you have no love it's not enough

How much money are we talking? Bezos levels or just pleasantly well to do? 😂

Also, do we both have to be poor, or can I still have my current level of income?

And why can’t we have both?

So many questions. I think I’m ruining the game.

Money as long as it doesn't come with a person I don't love.

Love: I’ve had money while being on my own and it didnt make me happy

Money, but not if it came with a person I didn’t love

As long as I wasn’t ‘couldn’t afford to feed the kids’ poor I’d choose love. I wouldn’t be interested in Bezos level wealth.

An absence of love or an absence of money is awful. Staring from neutral, love. Every time.

Money.
I don’t believe in (romantic) love.

Love. I can earn my own money.

Great to have both, but love trumps money in my book.

Love

Money can be earnt

Prob love trumps but in reality having no money is utterly grinding in a relationship

You first.

Daily Mail journalist?

@Buggritbuggrit

How much money are we talking? Bezos levels or just pleasantly well to do? 😂

Also, do we both have to be poor, or can I still have my current level of income?

And why can’t we have both?

So many questions. I think I’m ruining the game.

U both have below 20k jobs.

Are we talking about extremes? Because neither will make you happy if there's a complete lack of the other.

Assuming I can choose love but not be dirt poor I'd choose love.

X posts. In that case I'd choose money

I had to make this choice. I chose love. It was definitely the right choice.

If the rich guy was pleasant and not abusive I'd go for money. It makes life so much easier.

Depends. Does the money come with having to marry someone I really don't like?

I wouldn't marry someone I didn't like for money.

But if someone offered me complete financial security, the money to create choices for me and my kids and be single forever, I would pick that.

Well both are sheer hell right. No one wants to be skint or unloved.

If you have enough money yourself, then love.
But ....... can't be arsed being pleasing for some rich guy who might replace me if I'm not earning my place at his wealthy table. Fuck that.

So ... money. But my own. I know! I can't play this game.

''But if someone offered me complete financial security, the money to create choices for me and my kids and be single forever, I would pick that.''

Yes, this option! I would sacrifice the love option for complete financial security as this would give me and my DC the option to make all of our own choices and pursue all of our own ideas / hobbies / career choices.

@EarthSight

You first.

Daily Mail journalist?

Lol No

If I could afford to keep myself - love.

I wanted love. I ended up with financial security and cats. Like the man said, you can't always get what you want but...