As the title says really. We have had numerous discussions about it,so I know I'm definitely not going to change his mind. I know I'm extremely lucky and very grateful to have 2 happy, healthy children already but I feel like somebody is missing who should be here. Husband disagrees, and said to me last night that it makes him miserable when we talk about it. As I said, I know I won't change his mind, but I'm having a really hard time coming to terms with it. Does the feeling ever go away? I'm hoping I don't feel like this forever because apart from this we're best friends, and don't want our relationship to suffer. Any advice how to get past it?