What to do about wedding anniversary

[Justthinkingin]

If your spouse forgot your wedding anniversary last year, what would you do about this year? (Forgot in the sense that when you say 'Happy Anniversary' with a kiss, they say 'oh I'd forgotten about that', then no further mention of it at all).

I think you should plan together what you want to do on the day together.

If you want a day out together then book a day out...

I feel like this is a trick question.

I don't know how this happens. Nor birthdays . Do you not all talk about these things in the run up?
" what shall we so next week? Do you fancy going out for dinner?"
Or " don't plan anything for next week, i wantvto surprise you" etc etc