Anxiety in new relationship

[venice1232020]

I have started seeing someone (it has been 2 months), he has gone on a lad’s holiday drinking alcohol and I just feel so anxious about it, he has given me no reason not to trust him but I just can’t help it, keep thinking he is going to meet someone else, is it normal to feel like this? I can’t help but feel like I want to end it, it makes no sense that I feel like this but I just can’t help it.

It's quite normal to feel like this,especially if if it's a new relationship. I think there are 2 parts to this- how do you feel about yourself? How is your self confidence?. The second side is that we can never trust anyone 100 percent,it's how we trust ourselves that we can deal with it if there was anything. Try and relax, he will be back before you know it and will probably be very excited to see you!!

@venice1232020 you will hurt the relationship if you let this take over your thoughts. How long is he away for? The chances of him meeting someone are slim and would you really want to be with someone who could so flippantly pursue something with another person after dating you?

I feel for you because I have been there. It’s horrible. The best thing you can do is be excited for him about his trip and say you’re looking forward to hearing about it when he’s back. Honesty I know it’s hard but do you absolute best to do this, it raises your value and attractiveness. Hope you’re ok I know it’s hard.

What's the relationship like generally so far? Can you say a little bit about how you feel when you're together and apart? What does he do that makes you feel special to him? What does he do that makes you feel less than special?