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I'm so angry!

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SallyAnn32 · 25/07/2021 19:13

I haven't posted for a while and when I have it's been about the same shit. My ex.

He had an affair and left me and 2 DD's for an awful woman at his work. DD1 hasn't spoken to her dad since.

He'd been gone about a week and his 2 best friends (one of whom was his best man at our wedding) propositioned me and hounded me for sex. I said no and they got the message. This was separately. I told ex about this at the time maybe to hurt him maybe to warn him I don't know, and sent him pictures of the messages from them - including dick pics.

My brother has been on Facebook today and seen that they're all in Ibiza together along with a few girls who are friends of best mans sister. Zero cares given about the girls but what sort of person socialises with someone who hit on their wife?! We're not even divorced yet. Not only that but it makes me feel like an absolute joke and worthless because no one has morals for what any of them has done. Being pally with someone who destroyed their daughters and wife and cheated on them and left them in the worst scenario possible, and him being with friends who went behind his back to try and shag his wife.

What is wrong with people. Is it me??

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CloseYourEyesAndSee · 25/07/2021 19:14

They all sound like a bunch of sexually incontinent alley cats so I'm not sure why you're so offended really. He stopped being on your side when he started shagging about.

SallyAnn32 · 25/07/2021 19:23

@CloseYourEyesAndSee that's partly what makes me so angry - that it pisses me off. Just makes me feel like a twat. Shouldnt because I know I'm on the moral high ground. Maybe I'm just a bit emosh today. Don't know. But it really angered me!

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ShirleyDab · 25/07/2021 19:32

It's bloody shocking, what a disgusting bunch of low lives.
Try to rise above it, op. You're worth more than the whole shower
of them put together.
Flowers

mumsiedarlingrevolta · 25/07/2021 19:37

You have had a lucky escape @SallyAnn32!!

def better off without him and without letting your DDs see that such behaviour is ok.

hold your head high and move on

SallyAnn32 · 25/07/2021 19:48

I've got a good mind to screenshot the lot and send it to said sister but I can't be arsed with the drama.

18 months ago I would have totally done that 😂

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fedup078 · 25/07/2021 19:50

Block them all
Only communicate with ex regarding child contact
They sound like they're all 15 ffs

CherryDocsInYrBalls · 25/07/2021 19:53

Your ex is a shit and all his friends are shit especially thinking it's ok to sexually harass you. You have dodged a bullet. Don't engage. Focus on you and your DC.

EvenMoreFuriousVexation · 25/07/2021 19:54

what sort of person socialises with someone who hit on their wife

Most people. Sorry.

Weirdfan · 25/07/2021 21:22

Block the fucking lot of them OP, you will be happier for not knowing this shit, honestly. Best advice I can give you is surround yourself with the good people in your life to help balance out the disillusionment of finding out how skanky he and his friends actually are, not everyone is like that but it's easy to feel like they are if that's all you focus on. The important thing is that you're free of him now, he can't drag you down to his level and you will always be worth 10 of him Flowers

SallyAnn32 · 25/07/2021 21:36

Thank you everyone! Can always rely on this forum to either back you up or give you a slap back into reality.

They're fuckers! Usually I ignore it but today is one of those days where the logical side of my brain isn't working 😂

Thanks again xx

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