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You shouldn’t play games BUT what works to kickstart things when your DP gets lazy?!

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ThatPinkSofa · 21/07/2021 17:16

I’m thinking along the lines of the book why men love bitches.

Just interested really. When my DP is a little lazy and stops making as much effort, I slowly get things booked in without him. Ie a cinema trip or a very long day at the hair dressers. Things that I would do usually on a regular basis, but I do them exclusively and within days he is back to being engaged properly in the relationship. He’s a good man... Just needs a prompt now and then like we all do I guess.

Anyone else have any keep them on their toes tips?

OP posts:
Ragwort · 21/07/2021 17:23

Does that mean you don't go to the cinema or hairdressers if you are getting on well? Confused . Sounds a very odd way to behave.

Howshouldibehave · 21/07/2021 17:26

but I do them exclusively

What do you mean by exclusively, here?!

Reasonabella · 21/07/2021 17:33

😂 @Ragwort I mean I would just fill my week completely with these things so there would be no gap for me and him to fill. It soon reminds him to make an effort.

@Howshouldibehave exclusively as in I wouldn’t leave time for him.

I’ve expressed my OP badly haven’t I!

ThatPinkSofa · 21/07/2021 17:39

😂 @Ragwort I mean I would just fill my week completely with these things so there would be no gap for me and him to fill. It soon reminds him to make an effort.

@Howshouldibehave exclusively as in I wouldn’t leave time for him.

I’ve expressed my OP badly haven’t I!

OP posts:
ThatPinkSofa · 21/07/2021 17:40

I read why men love bitches and found it interesting!

OP posts:
AdaThorne · 21/07/2021 17:40

Name change fail OP!

Pyewackect · 21/07/2021 17:42

I'm confused. In more ways than one !.

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