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Just had sex for the 1st time in 7.5 years!!!

55 replies

LittleDonkeyKong · 11/07/2021 00:31

Well just that really! Had to shout about it somewhere!

OP posts:
Srae · 11/07/2021 00:38

Brilliant! I hope it was worth the wait.

beigebrownblue · 11/07/2021 00:39

Did you enjoy yourself?
Why are you posting on mumsnet?
Surely you need to tell the person you had sex with?
no one else's business is it?

SheldonesqueTheBstard · 11/07/2021 00:41

Not sure what the correct response is in polite society…

But you can pick your own. So…

Well done
Congratulations
Go you
Bazinga

I hope it was someone who treated you well (no details necessary in case you attract those with handies hairy) and you feel good about the world. Wink

Lostandconfused21 · 11/07/2021 00:41

Lol i love it! Get you some girl!

lilmishap · 11/07/2021 00:50

Boom!

1forAll74 · 11/07/2021 00:52

Oh great, was it just the once,or a double wammy.? Your 7 year itch has now come to fruition.

LadyBonnibel · 11/07/2021 00:57

Do you mind if I ask how old you are? Like if you're 63 or something it will cheer me up :o But even if you're younger, congrats! I'm assuming it was good as you seem happy!

GoToSleeeep · 11/07/2021 01:01

🎉

Mammyloveswine · 11/07/2021 01:02

I hope you had fun OP! Ignore the snotty comments! Xxx

Wherearemymarbles · 11/07/2021 01:04

Well, Reading MN it would appear that all men are porn freaks with ED

So well done you on finding the only man in the western world who isnt :)

LittleDonkeyKong · 11/07/2021 01:08

I'm late 30s! Didn't last long but at least I know it still works lol

OP posts:
LtDansleg · 11/07/2021 01:26

@beigebrownblue

Did you enjoy yourself? Why are you posting on mumsnet? Surely you need to tell the person you had sex with? no one else's business is it?
She obviously did. Because she can. Unless she did a Bill Cosby on him then he’s already aware they’ve had sex and doesn’t need telling. Nothing on here is anyone else’s business. But that would defeat the point of mn.
CatAndHisKit · 11/07/2021 01:30

Great, Op! I really how I can post a similar thing soon (it's been about the same!) - or not post but feel solidarity Grin. You do start wondering whether it will work again, haha.

CatAndHisKit · 11/07/2021 01:31

*really hope

emptyempire · 11/07/2021 01:58

Congrats!

me4real · 11/07/2021 02:12

Ooh, did you have a good time? My record was 8 years, also in my 30s. The first bloke I popped my born-again cherry with wasn't very sexually compatible. But I've had a few adventures since then.

NiceGerbil · 11/07/2021 02:49

Yowzers! That must have felt like a massive deal!

Good for you :)

BasicDad · 11/07/2021 03:08

Well done!

Hope you choose not to leave it so long next time.

CuntyMcBollocks · 11/07/2021 03:19

Good for you OP! There's nothing like a good clearing of the old cobwebs Grin

StarlightLady · 11/07/2021 07:37

💥 💥 💥

You go girl!

JustAnotherOldMan · 11/07/2021 08:11

An I assume this morning will be the second time

OomphRidden · 11/07/2021 08:51

Fantastic, good for you OP 🥳

StarlightLady · 11/07/2021 09:08

I can imagine the release feeling too. Since my teens (early 40s now), l’ve never gone 7.5 weeks, let alone years.

NoBetterthanSheShouldBe · 11/07/2021 09:10

@LadyBonnibel, I am 62. My current FWB is several years older. There is every reason to feel optimistic.

StarlightLady · 11/07/2021 09:19

@NoBetterthanSheShouldBe and @LadyBonnibel - I have a friend, 30 years older than me, who is just in her 70s, who is regularly getting laid by 2 different men (not at the same time) who are about 7 or so years younger. It does happen!

Sex is for the young at heart, not just the young.