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Section 7 help

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SarahNaiya · 06/07/2021 11:16

Hi all

I have a section 7 upandcoming. Dreading it.
Family findings were against my ex: coercive control, coercive behaviour, posting images and videos on porn sites without consent for his own gratification and many others.
Witnesses provided statements for ex hitting eldest child and being abusive.

He's not seen kids since Sept 2020. Pays little to no support 25 for youngest, nothing for. Eldest.

Got his family and third party sending streams of abuse, email spam, etc. Unknown calls. We are. Safeguarded still by police whilst their investigation is ongoing.

Have tried to bullet point everything so far. Worried they are. Going to. Give. Him access.

Can anyone offer any advice please. Thankyou in advance xxx

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MajesticWhine · 06/07/2021 11:32

Really sorry you are going through this. It sounds unbelievably stressful.
You might get more support if you ask for your thread to be moved to another section. Some people avoid or hide the feminism section.

Thecatonthemat · 06/07/2021 11:39

Keep records of everything. Remember that women’s voices are not taken seriously or believed. Male witnesses will probably be heard. Glad you have some support at present.

TheWeeDonkey · 06/07/2021 11:42

Hi OP, sorry you're going through this it sounds like a terrible situation. Ive asked for this thread to be moved to Relationships where you will be able to get a lot of practical advice and support. Good luck 💐

SarahNaiya · 06/07/2021 11:45

Thankyou for asking to move the thread. I wasn't sure where to Post. Thankyou

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FlibbertyGiblets · 06/07/2021 11:59

@SarahNaiya

Hi all

I have a section 7 upandcoming. Dreading it.
Family findings were against my ex: coercive control, coercive behaviour, posting images and videos on porn sites without consent for his own gratification and many others.
Witnesses provided statements for ex hitting eldest child and being abusive.

He's not seen kids since Sept 2020. Pays little to no support 25 for youngest, nothing for. Eldest.

Got his family and third party sending streams of abuse, email spam, etc. Unknown calls. We are. Safeguarded still by police whilst their investigation is ongoing.

Have tried to bullet point everything so far. Worried they are. Going to. Give. Him access.

Can anyone offer any advice please. Thankyou in advance xxx

Morning you lovely lot. Can you help this poster, by moving her thread to relationships please?

Cheers m'dears

FlibbertyGiblets · 06/07/2021 12:00

Ok sorry was trying to post to HQ to ask them to move thread. Oh dear, my crap internet skills are on show!

MichaelMumsnet · 06/07/2021 12:04

Thanks @FlibbertyGiblets
We've moved this thread over to Relationships now.

FlibbertyGiblets · 06/07/2021 12:06

Thank you so much.

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