Partner Sexting

[Starshine1982]

I've been suspicious of my DH for a few weeks now, as he has been distant with me and not very affectionate. I checked his phone the other day while he was in the shower and he has been exchanging very explicit photos and messages with multiple women on a messaging app for weeks, he has been suggesting to women that they meet up in the near future. I have confronted him about this and he denies ever wanting to meet up with them and was just using the photos for masturbation as an alternative to porn. I'm not sure I believe him though as all the women are located in our region of the country and could be reached within an hours drive.

We have been married 5 years and have a 2YO. Am I taking this too seriously or am I right to be freaking out and considering chucking him out of the family home?

I’m afraid if I found this on my DH phone…he’d be out the door. Sorry this has happened OP 💐

No you are not taking this too seriously.
He is cheating.
Throw the gaslighting sleazy piece of shit out

Didn't want to read and run, so sad this has happened to you. Get rid of him ASAP 💐

Of course you are not taking this too seriously!

It would break my heart if DH did this.

You're not over reacting.

It's your choice where you go from here. It must be extremely hard to trust him now though.

He's trying to gaslight you, you have seen the evidence there is no confusion to everyone else that this is very different to porn, these are real women with intention to meet them, you have every right to kick him out

He’s a sleazy gaslighter.

I would kick him out. No chance I'd be able to recover from that. I'm so sorry he's done that to you.

No no no OP. He would have met them, if they'd been up for it
Location says it all.... why pick women reasonably close by if its just wank material he wanted

He was looking for no strings sex OP, trust me. Only you can decide if you can forgive that. Most women could not.