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Does he dislike my body

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wildcoastalflower · 29/06/2021 22:35

My boyfriend of a year shows that he is very much in love with me . I am in no doubt about that . We enjoy each other's company so much . So much respect and love shown BUT I do wonder if he doesn't like my body .
He is physically and sexually very attentive but he's never placed his hands on my very wobbly belly !
We're together a year . He puts his arms around me all the time and we cuddle to sleep when together but around my hips or shoulders or upper chest . He holds and strokes my bum and hips and boobs and every other part of me but not my belly .
I won't ask as he is unfilteredly honest so I guess I do not want to hear the truth if it is that he finds that repulsive . Thoughts ? Is this me being conscious and paranoid ? I am a proportioned size 14 with a pregnancies hangover . I am 48 . He also has a belly that I love rubbing and cuddling .

OP posts:
Pikachusbutt · 02/07/2021 23:43

Maybe he is just not a person who likes bellies?

Maybe he is worried that if he gives it a cuddle or a jiggle, you might think he's taking the piss?

In all honesty, I have the post c section overhang and I cannot stand having DH touch my stomach below my belly button. It's really numb still and it just goes through me because it feels weird.

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