Boyfriend

[Justagirlwithissues]

I don’t think my boyfriend is sexually attracted to me anymore. I’m writing this on a forum, as I have no one else to talk to it about as it’s a really awkward topic. He said he wanted sex with me earlier, but we ended up not having sex. I feel unattractive and gross. :(

How old are the two of you and how long have you been in a relationship? Is the disinterest recent?

@Justagirlwithissues

I don’t think my boyfriend is sexually attracted to me anymore. I’m writing this on a forum, as I have no one else to talk to it about as it’s a really awkward topic. He said he wanted sex with me earlier, but we ended up not having sex. I feel unattractive and gross. :(

In that case get it all out of your system and explain why you think like this OP How old are you both How long have you been together Why do you think he is not attracted to you any more For starters

@MissConductUS

How old are the two of you and how long have you been in a relationship? Is the disinterest recent?

Bugger. You said it all in one sentence :)

OK. A boyfriend who makes you feel bad deserves only one thing - to be shown the door. 'Bye, mate!' is a useful phrase.

Even if he thinks you're an absolute dog, his opinion isn't of any value at all. At all. Ever. So let it go, and let him go with it.

Bugger. You said it all in one sentence.

To the point, that's us Yanks.

He said he wanted sex with me earlier, but we ended up not having sex.

Taking this sentence out of context, it doesn’t really seem like much of an issue, surely there must be more to this ?

I hardly ever end up doing what I've planned.
I'm currently supposed to be folding and sorting washing.