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No contact -full on then blocked

14 replies

hopelessromantic21 · 24/06/2021 21:17

Fell completely in love with a guy and he's broke my heart. It got very toxic and I'm not even sure who ended it but he tried worming his way bk in. So I decided I need space from him I've not had contact with him all week.
It's defo helping because I'm not anxious and crying my eyes out.
I want him back so I'm trying to stay strong.
Last two days he bombed me with texts. I've been strong and ignored him. He just text me about 15 mins ago and then said I'm blocking you.
I just want to text and tell him I love him. What shall I do? Have I lost him for good

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xsquared · 24/06/2021 21:22

No. You do nothing. Drama over.

SleepingStandingUp · 24/06/2021 21:24

It got toxic. You got out. Now he's taken the hint. Massive well done to you.
Now work on you and being without someone who causes you pain

Dabforpearl · 24/06/2021 21:25

Ignore him....hes testing you. Give yourself time to heal. You texting him will just confirm to him you are pining for him. Dont give him that pleasure....please dont text...he wont block you.

Beeeeeeeeeeeeeep · 24/06/2021 21:25

Why do you want him back?

Dabforpearl · 24/06/2021 21:26

Block him. The ball is in your court then.

Kinkybutkind · 24/06/2021 21:26

So I decided I need space from him I've not had contact with him all week.
It's defo helping because I'm not anxious and crying my eyes out.

You delete and block and you can spend many more days with no anxiety or tears... for this alone, don’t reply. He is clearly not good for you Flowers

Billandben444 · 24/06/2021 21:31

"It's a toxic relationship that's bad for me.
I deserve a good relationship.
I don't need him in my life".

Repeat the above statements as a mantra
💐💐

EllieStartingOver · 24/06/2021 21:33

He’s testing you, if you reply you’re back to square one.

pog100 · 24/06/2021 22:02

Given your username, I would assume you would greatly benefit from recognising you are living up to it all too well. The last part of the username luckily means you have all the time in the world to learn what a healthy relationship looks like. This isn't one. Block and forget, please

TiltTopTable · 24/06/2021 22:08

Why would you want to be in a "very toxic" relationship?

seensome · 24/06/2021 22:16

He's not going to suddenly change into a nice man he is what he is, quit now or he'll break your heart even more.

QueenBee52 · 25/06/2021 00:26

why haven't you blocked him already ?

Anordinarymum · 25/06/2021 02:06

@hopelessromantic21

Fell completely in love with a guy and he's broke my heart. It got very toxic and I'm not even sure who ended it but he tried worming his way bk in. So I decided I need space from him I've not had contact with him all week. It's defo helping because I'm not anxious and crying my eyes out. I want him back so I'm trying to stay strong. Last two days he bombed me with texts. I've been strong and ignored him. He just text me about 15 mins ago and then said I'm blocking you. I just want to text and tell him I love him. What shall I do? Have I lost him for good
It doesn't read like he loves you OP. Walk away from the drama
Ladylokidoki · 25/06/2021 02:37

Its got toxic because it toxic.

You wanted space, he gave you bit and then bombarded you with texts. He did respect your request for space.

You feel better for having the space.

Now on bit, because he is trying to manipulate you into replying.

This isn't an epic love story, where it all goes wrong, but then true prevails and you get your happily ever after.

You said it yourself, he broke your heart.

You block him and delete him.

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