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Positive online dating relationship stories please

76 replies

prettymum · 17/06/2021 13:51

So lots of us are jumping back on the apps now that some restrictions are over, please share your stories and give us some hope. Which app did you use and how long have you been together?

Going out on second date tonight with a guy who finally has me excited and is showing same enthusiasm back 😁

OP posts:
Lan2020 · 17/06/2021 17:23

Tinder. My partner is the first person I met from online dating. Been together 4 years with a 2 year old DS.

motogogo · 17/06/2021 17:25

We bought a house a few weeks ago.

Life is good!

But took 3 months of rubbish dates before I met him

motogogo · 17/06/2021 17:26

Should say met on Elite. Tinder was fun but they weren't for keeps

MintyCedric · 17/06/2021 17:29

These are great stories...would be nice to hear from second time around/mid life success stories to give us old gimmers a bit of hope!

niceupthedance · 17/06/2021 17:34

I'd been on apps for over 3 years and had just been on a date with DP's friend coincidentally (who turned out to be married!😡). DP joined tinder and I snapped him up within 24 hours. That was nearly 6 years ago 😍

BunTooti · 17/06/2021 17:34

POF 2013. 8 years together, 6 married. Kids, house, blissful Smile .

user1019273703 · 17/06/2021 17:36

Met on match. Been together coming up to a year. Never been happier and he is amazing with my 3 year old who adores him

chocolatesaltyballs22 · 17/06/2021 17:36

Met my husband on Match nearly 9 years ago. Have been married for 3 years. Had to sift through a lot of dross before I got to him though.

chocolatesaltyballs22 · 17/06/2021 17:37

@MintyCedric

These are great stories...would be nice to hear from second time around/mid life success stories to give us old gimmers a bit of hope!
Ours was a second time around - both divorced and early 40's when we met.
Musicaltheatremum · 17/06/2021 17:40

Met my fiance on tinder in August 2018. Love at first sight. I had met about 8 men from various sites before hand but this one clicked from his 2nd or 3rd message.

Starlight39 · 17/06/2021 17:40

Met on tinder in 2015, just had a baby together this year. I kissed a few frogs first (plus nice men who weren’t quite right for me!) but I was his first online date! He was only on the app for a total of 2 weeks. It just felt right and easy from the beginning.

jamaisjedors · 17/06/2021 17:47

Mid forties, middle of a divorce, tried out tinder for just a change of company.

Met a few people, noone nasty but noone i remotely clicked with.

And then DP. From the first message he was so polite and interested in me. We messaged for a week without him asking to meet up, i decided that even if it didn't work out i would love to be friends with him.

I asked him for a coffee, we chatted non stop for 3 hrs... Arranged the next date straight away and still together 8 months later and very soppy and both in it for the long haul, despite both being on tinder for just a bit of fun. Smile

He is such a gentle, lovely, caring, funny person. I think pre divorce I wouldn't have been interested in him (or would have messed things up) but i have done a lot of work on myself and am a different person these days.

The cliché : you find someone when you're not really looking - was true for me (possibly helps so i wasn't stressed out or putting myself under pressure).

Good luckFlowers

ScarlettSunset · 17/06/2021 17:47

Met on PoF. Together over 8 years now.
Nearly didn't reply to his message as I was put off by his username!

LostThings · 17/06/2021 17:50

Met on Match 10 years ago when we were both 38. Married and have a wonderful DC. Met some dodgy ones first though- including a married police officer Angry I was probably on there for about 18 months before I met my DP.

Lsquiggles · 17/06/2021 17:52

We met on plenty of fish, now been together 5 years with a house and daughter together Smile I didn't expect to find anything long lasting online but it all depends on the person and how you click at the end of the day!

user392610 · 17/06/2021 18:53

Met on POF, together 4 years, married 2 and expecting our first baby. 🥰
He's literally the loveliest man I've ever met.

Hermie12 · 17/06/2021 19:40

Met my DH 9 years ago online whilst we were living overseas. Have a 6 year old dd and been married 2 years. I’d just decided to let my membership lapse at the end of the month when he contacted me!

Coldbit · 17/06/2021 22:23

We met on Match almost 2 years ago - both of us are in our late 40's.
He's the best person I know and I feel lucky to have found him after coming out of a toxic marriage

Rainbowx · 17/06/2021 22:45

Together 15 years met on a dating section in a local newspaper Blush

Zealois · 17/06/2021 22:56

Tinder in 2019. We live together now and life is great. His profile was useless (could barely tell what he looked like) but his first message was a little creative and that's the only reason he got a reply. We clicked instantly.

I had many dates on Bumble and Tinder over the years, some nice but also plenty of disappointments. I was constantly deleting and redownloading the apps. Not even sure why I kept going, but really glad I did!

Peonies157 · 17/06/2021 22:59

Tinder, together 2yrs, live together, all good.

Went through a couple of other men via apps first, all i met were nice and respectful, just no spark.

Sunflower1970 · 17/06/2021 23:13

Met on Dating Direct 13 years ago. Now together 13 years. Very happily married

BreasticlesNotTesticles · 17/06/2021 23:17

Wow Dating Direct is a blast from the past!

Met DH 15 years ago on Match. Married 13 years, three kids and a dog

Icanflyhigh · 17/06/2021 23:18

Met DP through a fb dating group just over 5 years ago, our wedding is in 4 weeks!

HalfDutchGirl · 17/06/2021 23:34

Decided I’d had enough of all the apps so ended them all, two days left to run on Match and I got chatting to someone, gave him my number after 2 days messaging non stop and turns out we knew each other 30 years ago (he even came to my wedding! Totally bizarre!).

Been seeing him nearly a year now and he’s the kindest, nicest man I’ve ever met.

Online dating is a numbers game but sometimes those numbers just work! Good luck!