To pad or not to pad that is the question. Relationship, clothing bra topic

[Upsadaisy]

Have been seeing a really good guy for a few weeks now, he's been away with work for past couple. Anyway were going away this weekend together to get a little closer if you get my meaning lol.

My dilema as trivial as it is, please keep the laughs to a minimum I need advice lolol

well it is I am a cup size A. Everytime he's seen me I've wore padded etc bras so I look a bit bigger. As he hasn't seen me for a couple of weeks and as he is going to see me without my undergarments do I just go with what mother nature gave me as small as they are and just wear normal bras so he's under no illusion (I'm so embarassed lol) or do I stick with the padded and get him drunk lol...Oh I don't know

Opinions much appreciated

i thought this recently though i do wear a bigger cup i thought there might be a gap between the promise and the reality

he didn't actually say anuything

i think by the time you are naked and getting it on, they wont be really caring about the bra size

he i mean, i was not inferring you were having a 3 some

Oh you have my sympathy as I have had the same dilemma! And the awful moment when you realise that the 'girl secrets' have got to be removed surreptitiously - but how? When?

My suspicion (confirmed by a male friend)is that they actually don't notice any size discrepancy. Boobs are boobs are boobs when you get down to it.

but these bras are crap for the being groped part

At least they'll be in the right place when your bra comes off..... mine just rapidly lose altitude, then slope off to hide under my arms

and the odds are, if you are small in that dept (like me), unless you are using water balloons they wont be hugely different in size, so he probably likes women with little boobs (if it is of any relevence to him at all)

which bras Z?

Thanks zippitippitoes for reply
Nope, he hasn't said anything. While he's been away we've been texting and he sent a pic of his upper half just being daft shirtless and then said 'your turn' I didn't and thought nothing of it as we were larking about.

But its got me thinking now...how irrational am I being lol.

'Gap between promise and reality' so you think I should just go au naturale?

you could always tell him it turns you on more to keep your undies on during sex

boobs always look better in bras

never ever send a braless shot whatever size you are imo

lolololo Crossed post with you all
thanks for all your replys......ermmmmm what to do then padded and what the heck!
and as for groping i could perhaps just get his hands and put them under my bra when they go a wandering.

i dont think it will be an issue when it comes down to it

not had a problem myself anyway

i think in future i might try that line of it's much sexier for me to kjep all my clothes on

lol some men like whipping the knickers aside you know

Wear your very favourite bra and whatever else makes you feel sexy. He's going to see them sooner or later anyway, so it doesn't really matter whether you're wearing normal or padded.

I'm small too and am practically flat without a bra on. But tbh if a guy was bothered about it enough to say something, or look disappointed, then I wouldn't be getting naked with him again. Shouldn't be a deciding factor in a relationship!

Enjoy your trip!

Trust me when it comes to crunch time he'll be thinking 2 things . .

1. boobs, sex, boobs, sex (repeat as necessary)
2. I hope she doesn't think my penis is too small/big/smelly (delete as appropriate).