hello
I have just been dumped again. We had only been together a few weeks, but things were intense (on both parts) and I know we both wanted a future together (as far as we could tell). We were so well-matched, and he was the first man I have liked for ages. He had so many good points, and was perfect for me.
We communicated a lot by text and at times I guess I was insecure or anxious and even though he would reassure me, I would continue. This week, we had a lovely time together, but afterwards he seemed a bit down about things (he has a lot going on), and I misinterpreted it and sent a few messages saying perhaps we should take a break if he wasn't ready for a relationship, and I wasn't sure how to support him.
He was reassuring, but I continued, and the next day I didn't hear from him (had never happened before with us), so I texted and asked him to be straight with me ... and he broke up with me :(
I have apologised, explained about my anxiety/insecurity, told him the action I'm taking to resolve my issues, asked him to give me another chance ... but he is absolutely adamant that he doesn't want to continue. I am so so upset. I realise it's only been a few weeks, but the intensity of feelings and hope for the future were there for me.
Please please be kind, I am beating myself up for it being all my fault, and this on top of the sadness is so hard to deal with.