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Feel I was set up

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unfairlysetup · 10/06/2021 11:42

Last weekend myself and my girlfriend had talked about maybe going to dinner on Friday night this week. Last night she casually asked me "We don't have to go to dinner Friday if you don't want to?". We are going on holidays on Sunday so I said "well I was wondering when I'd get time to pack", she immediately replied in a clearly annoyed stern tone "Well I'll find someone else to go out with Friday".

We are going on holidays on Sunday and will be eating out Sun ev so its not like we won't be eating out anytime soon.

I feel I was unfairly set up last night by the way she phrased and casually asked the question and then when I didn't give an answer she wanted she let me know her unhappiness with it straight away. Why ask the question if there is an unacceptable answer. If she had asked are you looking forward to dinner Friday, I probably would have said yes. Any thoughts?

OP posts:
burnoutbabe · 11/06/2021 09:12

Surely most of us with partners, past the first flush of love are usually happy enough to go out for dinner but equally happy to not if we over stuff we need to do and are seeing that person for a week anyway in a few days.
It doesn't mean you are not genuine does it?

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