2008 is MY year!

[Dior]

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I said, NO MNing - though I know the thought of our society is too tempting...

Go away and rest your eyes. This is your mother speaking .

Morning Dior, how are your eyes today? Hope the drips are kicking in.

• I meant 'drops' !

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g isnt the answer to your problems, you are using him to distract yourself from the main thing

which is

are you really sure you want to be with your h?

i dont think deep down you do, but you feel obliged to try, even tho he is still not giving you what you need

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blimey dior, there is nothing wrong with looking and appreciating, i do it all the time (lovely young man in wagamamas serving me yesterday)

but that is different from this g thing

hi harman

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he might not be, i wasnt saying he was

i am saying that you are not happy with your h and g is the distraction you used before, so thinking abut him again is like a fall back

it doesnt make you a bitch, it makes you terribly unhappy

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if you really were a bitch - then you wouldn't even be aware of it!

so you're most definitely not. agree with lou, you're desperately unhappy and the reason you are looking for these reassurances outside of your marriage is because you're not getting everything you need from H.

too much has happened maybe? you've distanced yourself from him emotionally for a long time and are now understandably finding it hard to let him back in. he could be the most perfect husband in the world from this point on. but is that really enough? do you need a clean break and a fresh start?

I say this because I know that when I was 100% happy with H I would never even glance at another man. I didn't need to. I had everything I needed right next to me. I think when you feel that way, you just know. And you know something is just not right

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is that part of the depression? the feelings of wanting to run away and be alone?

your ds would most definitely not be better off without you.

but taking some time out for yourself may not be such a bad idea. if you can. get away for a few days and give yourself some time and space. then come back refreshed and with more energy to focus on ds and H.
is that a possibility?

Hi Dior, sorry you aren't having a great time at the minute.. it's very easy to think that the grass is greener and fantasise about G but like Lou says it's just a distraction.

Are you taking A/Ds?

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talk to your doctor, maybe they can up your dose

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