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The relief of dumping a toxic man...

5 replies

Relief877 · 06/06/2021 11:27

It feels good. Not in an overly excitable way. Just relief. And peace.

He felt deserving of a 20 year old. Even though he’s nearly 50 and looks like shit.

Let him go find her 😁

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Sunshinesusan67 · 06/06/2021 11:29

Oh it's lovely isn't it. I had a brief fling with a total narcissist and used to wake up riddled with anxiety. It's only once you're away from it you appreciate the peace and freedom. And of course you wonder why you ever put up with it.

Well done you. Happy times ahead.

NightoftheLivingBread · 06/06/2021 11:39

Was talking with someone recently about why dating someone that age as an older adult is so wrong – I mean they’re still adults, legal, etc. It’s because they’ve been children their whole lives. You’re dating someone whose only experience of life is being a child.

I saw someone for a bit as a 19-year old who was mid-late 30s. He was good looking and for me it was just a bit of fun and of no consequence, yet even I thought at the time that someone his age seeing someone my age was clearly inadequate in some way. Being that age now myself he definitely wouldn’t be a personality I’d associate with now (much reduced tolerance for seediness, immaturity and dysfunction... he would not be a catch).

Well done on getting rid of the creep!

IJustWantSomeBees · 06/06/2021 12:35

Congratulations on your new-found freedom! It truly is the best feeling.

Prepare for the inevitable crawl-back though, when he realises that no 20 year olds want to touch his saggy balls Grin

maskface212 · 06/06/2021 12:40

@Relief877

It feels good. Not in an overly excitable way. Just relief. And peace.

He felt deserving of a 20 year old. Even though he’s nearly 50 and looks like shit.

Let him go find her 😁

So he sees women as trophies. Sounds like you had a lucky miss but have released yet another misogynist into the wilds which is always bad news.
NightoftheLivingBread · 06/06/2021 16:51

@IJustWantSomeBees

Congratulations on your new-found freedom! It truly is the best feeling.

Prepare for the inevitable crawl-back though, when he realises that no 20 year olds want to touch his saggy balls Grin

😂😂😂
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