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Neighbour’s inappropriate comments

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Zig27 · 02/06/2021 17:52

Last year a parcel went to my neighbour’s. I went to collect it and he said he hopes it isn’t a mucky movie. I was a bit shocked and said ‘oh no’. I went to collect some more parcels tonight from his as I was at work in the day. He gave me the parcels I said thanks for collecting them and he said he hopes it isn’t a rude dvd. I was walking away and just casually said definitely not, thanked him and went and he said ‘fair enough’ in a low tone. He is about 70 and I’m 35 years younger. I just don’t get why he thinks it’s ok to make inappropriate remarks. He goes to swingers clubs and I know it’s not my business but it’s like he doesn’t know the boundaries.

OP posts:
Zig27 · 02/06/2021 19:17

I can’t believe people on here thought I was trolling, idiots. No, he did not tell me he went to swingers clubs but a very reliable source told me. I’m just going to get my parcels delivered to the Amazon locker from now on.

OP posts:
toocold54 · 02/06/2021 19:47

I think you’re overreacting he’s obviously just trying to be funny but is not good at it. Maybe just be thankful that you have someone who is willing to take in packages for you and actually give them back to you.

EarringsandLipstick · 03/06/2021 06:56

but a very reliable source told me

Um. Ok. 🙄

On your other point, mountain out of molehill. It's not like you need to have anything to do with him.

You don't sound the nicest either.

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 03/06/2021 10:09

I have a horrible feeling he would bloody love this

Actually, I think you might be right, there. Pervs are pervs, so they can probably derive excitement from just about anything. Like the ones who get off on sniffing sweaty shoes and the like

MissDoomAndGloom · 03/06/2021 15:53

I do think he maybe has the intention to try and be funny, it sounds like very outdated humor but it is still very inappropriate and if he is making you uncomfortable I would avoid him and having to knock at his door again OP x

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