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Abusive partner

39 replies

Tsmi21 · 31/05/2021 11:06

Hi all please don't judge, my partner is REFUSING to leave my home, I am on the rent agreement he is not. I suffer with EUPD and PTSD and my head is rapidly declining with this situation both my physical and mental health. 3 weeks ago we had the ultimate of ultimate fights which resulted in him throwing my head against the wall and me running to our neighbours for safety where he smashed my neighbors windows and was arrested. The next day I came home to find he had took keys and let himself in after being at court that day. I have asked him everyday to please leave and leave me alone and he just refuses point blank to leave or leave me alone. I told him it hasnt been working for months and he now refuses to leave the house incase I change the locks. We have bail conditions to stay away from each other but I DO NOT want police involved again unless absolutely necessary. Everything you could imagine about a textbook domestic violence perparator is this guy. I am so scared I'm going to kill myself before he goes ladies please help what do I do

OP posts:
Tsmi21 · 01/06/2021 12:07

At 3am this morning I woke up feeling sick and no what I had to do, I don't know why it took so long I text a friend I haven't spoken to in years because of this man and they contacted the police for me, he was removed from my home and I'm now waiting on a call from the domestic violence officer to talk through my options. Thank you so much everyone

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Motnight · 01/06/2021 12:14

Well done, Op. Sounds like your friend is a good one too.

category12 · 01/06/2021 12:30

Well done OP. Flowers

Get your locks changed if you can.

PinkPoloMint · 01/06/2021 12:31

Well done 🌸🌺🌹

Outbutnotoutout · 01/06/2021 12:32

Well done, keep him out
Call the police if he comes back

halfhope · 01/06/2021 12:35

Tsmi well done 💐

CandyLeBonBon · 01/06/2021 12:43

I've been there op. It's scary. Well done x

BlueDaises · 01/06/2021 12:44

Great news

Tsmi21 · 01/06/2021 14:51

Me and my son will be staying with his father until I can be moved, turns out he has previous of this 5 years ago with another woman I feel absolutely sick to think he was near me and my child now

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BlueButtercups · 02/06/2021 03:12

@Tsmi21

Me and my son will be staying with his father until I can be moved, turns out he has previous of this 5 years ago with another woman I feel absolutely sick to think he was near me and my child now
How are you Tsmi21
Tsmi21 · 02/06/2021 08:57

Bluebutter cups I'm still in shock that this is all happening to be honest I never thought I would have the courage but last night was the best sleep I've had in a long long time thank you so much for asking xx

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BlueButtercups · 02/06/2021 11:55

@Tsmi21

Bluebutter cups I'm still in shock that this is all happening to be honest I never thought I would have the courage but last night was the best sleep I've had in a long long time thank you so much for asking xx

this is good 🌸

EarthSight · 02/06/2021 19:55

I knew you could do it :) Your post, although desperate, was all about the practicalities. You knew what you had to do and you did it. I'm glad you put your son with his Dad for a while.

Tulipsandviolets · 02/06/2021 22:28

So hope all works out for you and your son. Well done for being brave and having respect for yourself and your child. A happy safe future for you is coming Flowers

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