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Over too soon......

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Picklebernard · 31/05/2021 07:41

My partner is a little upset with me this morning.
We had sex last night and this morning he feels like I just 'used' him.
He'd consumed more than the average amount of wine which usually renders him unable to 'finish'......not a problem, however, this morning he says it felt a little abrupt.....
We had a lovely cuddle afterwards and as far as I was concerned, everything was great!
Am I wrong to feel a little aggrieved? The number of guys that have ever complained of not getting any.......?!?! He initiated things, I thoroughly enjoyed it.....
Your thoughts please Sad

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dementedpixie · 31/05/2021 08:08

In what way did he feel used?
I dont understand the issue

Pinpointer · 31/05/2021 08:10

@dementedpixie he wasn’t able to finish and op was. He’s basically annoyed she got off and he didn’t.

Beeeeeeeeeeeeeep · 31/05/2021 08:12

So he didn't orgasm? Have you ever stopped sex when he's orgasmed and you haven't?
This is ridiculous. My DP sometimes can't finish due to medication and if it's not happening we just go to sleep and try again next time. He'd never be pissy about it.

dementedpixie · 31/05/2021 08:16

She put that it usually renders him unable to finish but didn't say that was the issue last night.

It's usually the woman that goes unsatisfied tbh. Glad you enjoyed yourself Grin

Picklebernard · 31/05/2021 08:52

@dementedpixie

In what way did he feel used? I dont understand the issue
I don't quite understand the issue either if I'm honest
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