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Where to find friend with benefits

33 replies

QueenVikki · 23/05/2021 17:46

I am (nearly) divorced and don’t want another relationship because I want to concentrate on my kids/work/home. What I would like is someone to have sex with sometimes and to go out for a drink with every so often. Where do I find someone suitable, I haven’t dated since 2000s? Any tips?

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PaperMoonshine · 23/05/2021 23:15

@Keepyourdistance000

Better off with a few really good sex toys than fwb - in my experience someone always gets hurt and it's just not worth it, especially if it's a friend or a colleague.
Not if its done properly. It only ends badly if someone goes into it hoping it'll become more.
PinotPony · 24/05/2021 10:50

Killing Kittens. Female led sex community. Much classier than FABSwingers - the guys on there are very respectful and polite whilst being utterly filthy!

I tried conventional dating sites looking for a FWB and found that men on Tinder were less than honest. Whereas on KK I was able to ask other women for recommendations. 😆

Ck1985 · 13/07/2023 19:54

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Thisisworsethananticpated · 13/07/2023 21:14

No scarcity
😂
any dating app
just be careful of verbiage you use as the term ‘casual’ gets you inundated
Feeld , hinge , tinder

Thisisworsethananticpated · 13/07/2023 21:15

You can’t post someone’s photo here
it’s against site policy and probably app !

you should delete

RachelTopliss · 13/07/2023 21:23

The original post was over two years ago I hope Vikki has had some action since then!

JellybabyToes · 13/07/2023 21:57

Whenever I see one of these zombie threads bumped after so long, I just know it’s going to be a thirsty man clutching at straws. I think you’re looking in the wrong place @Ck1985.

Did you ever ask Iceland guy @QueenVikki? I hope it all ended happily.

TheMossEnthusiast · 14/07/2023 19:01

Join a club (crossfit or running in particular, but all sports serve this purpose well) - superb way to vet people since you can speak to them first and make friends at the same time with other people.

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