First things first, this is my first actual post after years of stalking/imparting wisdom.
I just wanted some advice from other people who may or may not have been in my position- I'm approaching 40 and have been single for about 2.5 years, with kids ranging from 19-9 years old.
I am terrified of meeting somebody else due to my own anxieties; the last time I was single I was in my twenties- slim, blonde & confident; I am no longer any of those things,
I just wondered how the actual fuck you're meant to meet nice people? I've tried OLD but due to unsolicited dick pics & various sleazy men, have decided that this is not for me!
Also, when you do meet someone - how do you get over the terror of them seeing you naked? I look like a melted candle these days!