I have been with my DP for many years. I have not been able to orgasm for a long time now, not only that when we have sex, it’s like i can’t become aroused easily and I shut off, I’m worried it’s starting to become ‘The elephant in the room!’
We’ve had a rocky relationship over the past few years and nearly separated, things were said that hurt me but we are in a much better place, I’m not sure if this is relevant to what’s happening in the bedroom.
He spends lots of time pleasuring me but it’s like I shut down.
I love him and don’t want us to separate.
Does anyone have any advice please?