Long story short - been with my DP for almost 16 years. Second relationship for both of us. He’s been married, I never have.
He proposed early on in our relationship and then changed his mind - this was totally understandable based on his previous experiences and I would have done the same. As a result getting married has not been on the agenda since. We have bought a house together - he’s totally committed. No issues at all.
Over the last year he’s sort of hinted at marriage but there’s not been any real conversation about it. He knows that ideally I would like to get married but it’s not a dealbreaker.
What got me thinking about it was that yesterday I mentioned I needed to get some new business cards ordered and he said maybe wait until after your birthday - I said why and he said you’ll have to wait and see.
The only logical thing I can think of as to why I would need to wait is if my details were going to change... Which would mean marriage. What do you think?!
I need some opinions!! Thanks 😊