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Getting an ex back

52 replies

Wellthatdidntgowell · 13/05/2021 15:40

So am wondering if this ever works?

I ended things. I had someone message me on social media saying they were seeing him too but found out since it was rubbish. When I ended it I didn’t answer his calls and he came over and wanted his stuff back and was angry I left him on the doorstep. I just didn’t know what to do.

I left it 5 days and contacted him, he’s angry said I should have had his back and that I treated him like a 🤬 leaving him on the doorstep and disrespected him. He’s also saying I watch his phone and don’t trust him etc.

I have been cheated on before so am wary. But I feel like such an idiot and I really want to make things right.

We have spoken everyday since I got in contact and he has calmed a little and just says let’s see how it goes, and let’s see maybe you will. But won’t phone me or see me. It’s been 2 weeks now.

What should I do? Is this a no am heartbroken and confused.

OP posts:
RhubarbCustardy · 13/05/2021 22:48

Simple really. You love him but do you trust him? If you don't trust him then you'll end not loving him. No smoke without fire. Seems strange he's so annoyed that you didn't believe him but yet he's not responding or calling you. He might be seeing someone and keeping you as an option. Tread carefully OP.

xsjrx · 13/05/2021 23:15

Ex's are ex's for a reason don't go back and got NC!

Whilst I have been catfished before by randoms on dating websites and Facebook ( so it does happen) there are way too many red flags here.

Cut your losses, move on and find some who treats you with respect. Yes you love him but you can love someone else and first of all that needs to be you! Btw I've been there with a completely narcissistic ex , red flags galore, cheated on his ex wife but never told me during our relationship etc etc and thought I would never find love again...it takes time but now I am with some who treats me correctly and am super happy. It'll work out for you too OP.

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