My husband is a selfish prick. He shows no affection, apart from when he wants sex, puts me down when the opportunity arises, talks to me like a child and doesn't listen to me. He steps over stuff on the stairs, doesn't close drawers or cupboards after himself, will often randomly stop 'helping' at bath time to play video games and will often leave his dinner plate on the table. His only redeeming qualities is that he reads to son#1 at bedtime, makes me a coffee in the morning and loads the dishwasher. He empties the bins, as do I, and will cook once a week... I have to say thank you and praise the meal at least 4 times though otherwise he gets moody. He point blank refuses to wash up ever.
To counteract these depressing aspects of my own marriage, please can you tell me all the lovely and kind things that your partners do or say to you? I think reading about a normal, happy marriage would be nice.
Don't tell me to LTB as I can't.