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Trying very hard to NC

12 replies

ArtisanBreadBin · 08/05/2021 23:55

But I was in our shared home town yesterday and I unblocked him. Within 5 min he'd messaged "hello?"

I haven't replied as I'm trying to protect myself from him and his new woman and their massively public posting.

I've blocked him again now and I don't even know why I'm posting. Maybe he was looking for me. Idk

OP posts:
Ardvark111 · 09/05/2021 01:42

Keep him blocked > simples,!! I'm assuming you have no kids with him so if that's case nothing tying you together, he has moved on its your turn now,!!

H2OConnoisseur · 09/05/2021 01:54

Block him again, leave him blocked, and try to move on with your life.

RantyAnty · 09/05/2021 01:58

Why did you unblock him? Leave him blocked.

BlueVelvetStars · 09/05/2021 03:30

@RantyAnty

Why did you unblock him? Leave him blocked.

yes why did you ?

LaptopDying · 09/05/2021 06:39

Why did you unblock him was my thought too.

If you don't want contact from him, leave him blocked.

You're asking why he contacted you, he'll be asking why you unblocked him.

There's a really simple, no effort solution to this problem.

Happycat1212 · 09/05/2021 12:35

Don’t play games, leave him blocked

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AgentJohnson · 09/05/2021 13:03

Maybe he was looking for me.

He was looking for another opportunity to mess with your head, you need to stop him giving him opportunities to do that.

Imjustsootired · 09/05/2021 15:39

What was the point of that? Unblocking just to reblock?

Happycat1212 · 09/05/2021 15:46

Attention seeking

Ardvark111 · 09/05/2021 16:02

@happycat1212 you remind me of #anyfucker, ie not 1 to mince your words,!! I like that Grin

ChristmasFluff · 09/05/2021 16:20

Unblocking him doesn't exactly scream 'trying very hard'.

It may help to remember the words of Yoda, "do or do not; there is no try"

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