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Shehasadiamondinthesky · 03/05/2021 13:40

Had a lovely chat with a possible nice man from a pagan dating site, then he says suddenly are you open minded?
I said not particularly no because I am quite reserved about being intimate with people I haven't met yet and even then like to take things slowly. I'm looking for a keeper not a quick fling.
So he sends me a bunch of obscene images, some of them I can't even make out what they are.
How do blokes think this is going to attract a nice lady or a relationship? His details said he is looking for a long term monogamous relationship!
Is this how people are now? i think i'm going to have to give up looking quite honestly.

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booboo24 · 03/05/2021 13:47

No, thankfully this isn't how normal men behave. Sadly on dating sites this does happen quite a lot though, you just have to block and move on, weed out the weirdos to find the nice normal ones!

Wanderlusto · 03/05/2021 13:51

Tbh you were never going to find decent men on a pagan dating site. The sort if guys that would join them probably all assume women on them are freaky in bed witches with long nails and daddy issues lol.

Then again you get assholes on every dating site.
Block him and report him to the site.
Don't take it personally.

Imjustsootired · 03/05/2021 13:53

Dont let it put you off. You're always gonna get this shit.

Not all guys are like this x

Livpool · 03/05/2021 13:55

What a wanker!

UseOfWeapons · 03/05/2021 14:10

What an arse!
Block and report, he’s a creep.
I got to know my 2nd husband through a pagan OLD site. He was wonderful to start with....but ended up being an abusive, psychopathic bastard.
Be careful out there, OP, I’m sure there are nice men about, not sure where you’d find one, though. 💐

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